Every Human Being's personality is multi-faceted. Every aspect of our personalities performs a function and the combination of all these different aspects creates a persona which we 'put out' into the world.
How many different 'heads' do you wear during the course, not only of your life, but throughout your daily existence? The happiest and most successful people have many 'heads' that will be inter-changed throughout the course of any given day, without them actively giving much thought to what they are doing.
A man may wear his 'office head' when at work and then go home where he will automatically adopt his 'husband head' and 'father head'. If he goes out that evening with his mates, he will probably wear a different 'head' again.
How we address others, is usually dictated by the situation and the existing relationship between the people interacting. The number of 'heads' we have at our disposal, reflects the abundance, or lack of resources, which we have available to us on a daily basis to navigate our way through life and its challenges.
If you always come across as being the same, in any situation, your life may be limited and you may experience life as un-comfortable. For example, a man who speaks to his colleagues in the same tone of voice that he uses with his young children may not be too popular! Likewise, a man who speaks to his boss in the same way that he interacts with his peers may have similar problems if his boss is not also a friend.
As with most things in life, balance is the key. The more you develop the various aspects of your personality, the greater the wealth of resources you will have at your disposal to navigate a productive, comfortable and successful life.
If life does not feel comfortable, hypnotherapy can help you to discover where the problem may lie and assist you in developing those aspects of your personality that can improve your experience.
Renew Hypnotherapy Nottingham is based in Arnold, Nottingham and offers a free initial 20 minute consultation. Read about Nottingham Hypnotherapist Liz Anderson or Telephone: 0115 9206005.
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